Recently, I read from somewhere that a relationship crafted the character and personality of a person. People tends to change their mindset, reset the life goal and be motivated after out of a relationship, and get a fresh change, mentally and physically before stepping into another relationship.

I personally felt this. MAN had a handful of relationship before I met him while I myself had a few. I discuss this with MAN after reading the article. We both felt the same way. We tended to strive for a better one by having list of characteristics subconsciously if we dumped people and tried to change ourselves so we can do better in the next relationship if we got dumped. We learned and came a long way and transformed into who we are today.

I do not know if I did changed the life of anyone I once loved but I did learned from them. I am thankful that they have once stepped into my life. There were both love and hate stories and undeniably, I learned and I grew up. Through them, I understand myself better and I discover what I really want.

If there is a chance to rewind everything to the starting point, I’m not sure ff I still want to go down the same path all over again, but if I’m not, I might not be who I am today, and more importantly, I might not be able to meet MAN.

So, thank you.

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