Being Myself.
location~ Home Sweet Home
why blog? Just my thought. Off to bed now. Sleepy.
MAN told me that his mate commented me “文雅”. I’m taking this as a compliment which defined as elegance. If I would to take this as an offensive one, then it will be saying I’m too quiet or tend to isolate myself from the crowd.
It is ambiguous but anyway, I would like to interpret it the positive way, just like everyone do.
I actually discovered this myself long time ago. I’m not the person who can mingle well with stranger. When I’m first introduced to new friends, I don’t talk a lot, I will listen to people’s conversation, observe people’s behavior and expression but of course with smile on my face to show my friendliness. Day to day, when getting closer and familiar, I will be talkative and I joke casually, everyone around me have good laughters.
People might feel I’m deceptive and untrue at the first place. Anyway, I just don’t want to embarrass myself in front of stranger, like telling dirty joke and thought myself is so humorous but end up everyone stunned there. *blush*
I don’t want to give bad impression to people. I’m cautious when talking and try not to hurt people’s feeling. I don’t act like I’m very much knowledgeable when I actually know only the surface.
I’m protective to myself. All my closed friends share one thing in common. Attitude.
